Validation or Victim?

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Without owning our gifts and our path, we’re often left looking outside of ourselves for someone else to do this for us. Even when it works in moments and we hear what we think we want, we often still find ways to beat ourselves up later, because we aren’t internally as clear as we can be.

This can cause us to spiral downwards, losing our deepest connection and highest source of inspiration with ourselves.

Remember, the more we validate ourselves, the more we can create.

I had a rough day yesterday and I had to remind myself to focus on what I really love doing and who I truly am at my core.

Once, we’re solid in ourselves, it’s ok when people disagree or when they don’t quite get what we’re up to or don’t show up the way we may like.

We can still choose to hold space for what we want and allow the people that are meant to be on our path space to join us.

Here’s a little video reminder I always love. 

As you can see from this man, the more we give our gift, the more we own our gifts, the farther we can go.

Ask yourself, what is something I can validate within myself today?

What gift can I genuinely see and share with someone else today?

Remember, this seemingly simple skill set can help set us on a new path for our business and financial opportunities, even greater health, love, purpose and quality relationships.

Your possibilities are endless…especially when you take the time to choose. 



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